- Start early, earlier than you think, especially if you have a deadline. This should help relieve some stress. Clutter is created by postponing decisions.If you are storing items for others, set a date in the very near future for them to pick them up. It might be emotional for them and they might push the date out so start early then set a date you will get rid of the items.
- Try to understand why, how and when the clutter started piling up. Try to be very honest and easy on yourself.
- When you get a postcard in the mail that a donation truck will be in the area schedule a pickup and promise yourself to leave them at least 3 large garbage bags worth of donations
- Do not accept items that you do not want from family members out of guilt. Thank them for thinking of you and ask them to pass that item on to someone else
- Write down the stories associated with your family’s possessions and attach to the item if you are planning on passing them onto the next generation. Sometimes just writing the story helps you release the item for someone else to enjoy.
- Ensure that all of your personal paperwork is in order, do not wait to do this: Wills, Living Wills, Health Care Directive, etc.
- Donate clothes that no longer serve your station in life or clothes that no longer fit or are dated.
- Look at donations from DeCluttering as helping someone who could use your extra items to improve their life.
- If you are overwhelmed by your DeCluttering task ASK FOR HELP, it’s hard work physically and emotionally.
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DeClutter By Deirdre, A Senior Move Management Company
DeClutter By Deirdre is committed to assisting people & their families who struggle with where to start and complete de-cluttering their homes so they can de-stress and enjoy a full life without extra burdens they could not previously tackle on their own. People who are ready to take control of all they can in their lives and develop solid systems that allow them to step away from items and stresses that no longer serve them and to enjoy the company of others and have the leisure time to pursue family time, interests and hobbies. Remodeled/organized spaces reduce the mental burden of clutter, allow easier movement about the house when physical challenges present themselves or changes to the home have to be made to allow those individuals who will be aging in place to stay in their own home. Donation to local charities is a major focus, help those in our communities so they can grow and change the world in a positive manner!
Deirdre is a member of the National Association of Senior Move Managers, Coalition of Agencies Relating to Elderly Services, Connecticut Geriatric Society, Senior Care Resources of Western Connecticut and Treasurer for Friends of Newtown Seniors.